The best way to never get over a problem is to keep focusing on it.
Spotting a problem is easy, and for many of us, it can create a sense of pride for being the first one to notice it. That sense of pride resonates inside of us and it’s in our nature to want to revisit that feeling and duplicate it as often as possible.
Who wouldn’t want to feel proud at all times?
Although the pride you’re feeling is not false, you’re the only one feeling it. However, if you discover a problem and present a solution, others will join you and you won’t be the only one proud of you.
The next time you discover a problem, curb the pride you gain from noticing it and save it for the the solution. Over time, your mind will automatically move to fixing the problem in order to achieve the satisfaction of feeling proud.
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